Monday, August 31, 2009

Title Talk

MOOD STATUS: "Disappointed". Just realized my jury duty is for the entire week.

I have a confession to make. I never give too much thought to the titles of my manuscripts.

Whew. There. I feel so much better now.

I know I should. After all, publishing is a business and you want your title to stand out, but I like to focus on the writing of the story so much more. So I simply pick a phrase that pretty much tells me what the book is about and then I always figure I'll change it later.

Of course, that never happens. LOL!

However, I did notice after cleaning out my files this weekend that I did go through quite a number of titles for my recent Avalon romance Georgie on His Mind.
(Which, by the way, is a title I do NOT care for at all)

There. I admitted that, too. (Confession is good for the soul.)

Anyhew, here's the list of original titles I had for it:

Dream Man this didn't work for me because I felt it sounded paranormalish (is that a word?)

Brotherly Love Although this title does go with the storyline, it just sounds wrong for a romance, if you know what I mean.

Dream Date although my heroine does enter a date contest it's not the main focus of the story so I felt it didn't go.

My Best Friend's Sister actually, I still like this, but maybe it's a little too obvious.

I finally kept Georgie on His Mind because my hero can't get "Georgie" (short for Georgianna) off his mind, hence the title. I pretty much went with that because I was sick of thinking of titles.

To be honest, I thought I would be told to change the title. But for now, I guess it's staying. We'll see. Publishers usually know best.


In fact, according to Marvin D. Cloud's article: here's a list of books that started out with different titles:


• Tomorrow is Another Day became Gone With The Wind.


• Blossom and the Flower became Peyton Place.


• The Rainbow Book became Free Stuff For Kids.


• The Squash Book became the Zucchini Book.


• John Thomas and Lady Jane became Lady Chatterly’s Lover.


• Trimalchio in West Egg became Fitzgerald’s The Great Gatsby.


• Something that Happened became Steinbeck’s Of Mice and Men.


• Catch 18 became Catch 22





Interesting, huh?



Anyway, five different titles for one manuscript is a record for me.


How about you?


What's the most number of titles you've had for one manuscript?

Friday, August 28, 2009

Musings of a Tenacious Reader

IN THE NEWS: "Man gets glued to toilet seat at Australian mall." Read more HERE.


I had a shockaroo of an experience recently.
(Uh, I should clarify right now that I'm talking about a reading experience)

Anyhew...
I started this book (which will remain nameless) in June. It was one of my few print books that I bought to take to the beach with me. Let me tell you right now, I was really excited to start this book. It looked fun and a perfect beach read.

Well. It wasn't. At least, I didn't think it was at first. I would pull it out then wonder many many times over why in the world I thought I would ever like this book.
It actually put me to sleep!

After reading five or so chapters in the span of two months, I finally gave up on it, happy to be rid of it. But then a few days ago, I found myself at the beach with nothing to read. I looked in my beach bag and there that book was--dusted in sand, crumpled, looking forlornly up at me. (I'm not made of stone, people!!) So, I picked it back up and started to read it again.

Something quite unexpected--almost magical-- happened around chapter eight.

I started to enjoy it.

Yes. I started to enjoy this book that was once the bane of my summer reading pile. In fact, I started to enjoy it so much I finished the whole thing in a day and a half.

Wow. I'm so glad I gave that book another chance. It may have started out slow with the characters sounding all the same and cliches up the wazoo, but then it came into its own and in the end it really was a fun book to read. Who knew?

Has that ever happened to you? Have you ever given up on a book only to try it again and be pleasantly surprised?

Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Don't Judge a Hero by His Name

MOOD STATUS: "Grouchy". I have a backache that won't go away.

The other day my hubby (feigning interest in my writing-LOL!) was asking me questions about my manuscript (the manuscript that was just contracted). So I was in process of telling him the story when he suddenly got this strange look on his face and threw his hands up in the air to stop me.


"What's the matter?" I asked.


He stared at me for a second then asked, "Uh, what did you name your hero again?"


His confusion made me laugh out loud, because he is certainly not the first person to question my sanity over the name I had chosen for my hero. :)


As a matter of fact, a few months back I did a blog post on names for your heroes over at the Samhain blog. It was called: Beyond Jack and Jake: What to Name Your Hero.


If you missed it, you can read it HERE.

Go ahead. I'll wait while you do that. :)


**muzak version of "Thriller" playing...**


Oh! You're back! Great!


Well, if you read carefully I talked about "fashion limbo" names. Names that aren't typically viewed as masculine enough or even over-the-top enough for a contemporary romance hero.

Here's a few of them:

Bruce
Clark
Dean
Dennis
Don
Grant
Glenn
Lance
Neil
Jay
Todd



Well, pooh. I like a few of those. And I figured it was time to buck the trend. (I'm such a rebel)
As much as I wanted to name my hunky hero Jake, I resisted and used a fashion-limbo name instead. (My editor never said a word about it either)


I bet you're wondering what the name is I chose for my hero now. Well, I won't keep you in suspense any longer. LOL! My hero's name is...






Walt.



Yes, he's a twenty something Walter (my dad's middle name, actually) although in my soon-to-be printed book my hero strictly goes by just "Walt".



Are you as surprised by my choice of name as my hubby and critique partners were? :)

Tuesday, August 25, 2009

A New Online Love!

IN THE NEWS: "A South Carolina woman has won a $2 million jury verdict against a dental clinic that mistakenly pulled 13 teeth." Read more HERE.


I've discovered a new online love: Food shopping.

I have tried many online supermarkets in the past, but I think Shop Rite has it down to perfection. Finally, a supermarket who knows what they're doing!

The site is easy to maneuver (unlike another food store I could name--but won't) and I can place my order up to four hours before I pick it up. They have a little drive-thru area for me where I pay as they then place my bags in the car for me. Easy peasy.

(The friendly baggers don't accept tips which is too bad because they're great)

I even love that they call me a few hours before I pick up to tell me if they're out of something or to ask me if there's anything else I'd like to add. Yes, I talked to a live, friendly person.

Yesterday, I actually enjoyed food shopping. LOL! And best of all, there was no complaints by the kiddo when I told her where we were going.

Have you ever food shopped online?

Monday, August 24, 2009

The Buzzards are Circling, but God is Not Finished with Me Yet AND God Has Never Failed Me, but He’s Sure Scared Me to Death a Few Times by Stan Toler

It is time for a FIRST Wild Card Tour book review! If you wish to join the FIRST blog alliance, just click the button. We are a group of reviewers who tour Christian books. A Wild Card post includes a brief bio of the author and a full chapter from each book toured. The reason it is called a FIRST Wild Card Tour is that you never know if the book will be fiction, non~fiction, for young, or for old...or for somewhere in between! Enjoy your free peek into the book!

You never know when I might play a wild card on you!



Today's Wild Card author is:




and the books:



The Buzzards are Circling, but God is Not Finished with Me Yet

David C. Cook; New edition (August 1, 2009)
AND



God Has Never Failed Me, but He’s Sure Scared Me to Death a Few Times

David C. Cook; New edition (August 1, 2009)



ABOUT THE AUTHOR:


Stan Toler resides in Oklahoma City, OK and is an international speaker and seminar leader. For several years he served as Vice-President and taught seminars for Dr. John Maxwell's INJOY Group, a leadership development institute. Toler has written over 70 books, including his best sellers, The Five Star Leader, Richest Person in the World, The Secret Blend, his popular Minute Motivator Series; and his latest book, ReThink Your Life. His books have sold over 2 million copies worldwide.


Visit the author's website.

Product Details:
The Buzzards are Circling, but God is Not Finished with Me Yet:

List Price: $14.99
Paperback: 208 pages
Publisher: David C. Cook; New edition (August 1, 2009)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 1434765946
ISBN-13: 978-1434765949

Product Details:
God Has Never Failed Me, but He’s Sure Scared Me to Death a Few Times:

List Price: $14.99
Paperback: 256 pages
Publisher: David C. Cook; New edition (August 1, 2009)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 1434765954
ISBN-13: 978-1434765956

My Review: for The Buzzards Are Circling, But God's Not Finished With Me Yet
What a wonderful book full of encouragement (and humor!) for the tough times in our lives.

I love how the author says that "there are times when it seems to be 'us vs life' and life is up by three points with with less than two minutes to go in the last quarter." He then refers to his book as "a playbook for the two minute warnings in our lives."

But the inspirational information he shares is always faithful to God's Word and serves as a great reminder that God will never fail you.
I can't wait to read the next one! :)

AND NOW...THE FIRST CHAPTERs:




©2009 Cook Communications Ministries. The Buzzards Are Circling, but God’s Not Finished with Me Yet by Stan Toler. Used with permission. May not be further reproduced. All rights reserved.

Chapter 1

When Your World Crumbles, You Don’t Have to Be One of the Crumbs

(You Can Survive Your Situation)


David Hopkins felt as though the eyes of a thousand demons penetrated his soul as he walked across the campus of Emmanuel College in Franklin Springs, Georgia. Thousands of beady-eyed buzzards arrogantly shifted along the bare tree limbs as if they were waiting for him to drop dead and furnish their lunch. My friend Dr. Hopkins, the college president, said his skin crawled as he thought about the six years of torture that had come from the predators who arrived each October and lingered until April, infesting the college property.


With the crunch of his every footstep on the leaf-strewn ground, he relived the staff’s repeated efforts to scare away the birds. Devoted employees tried banging pots and pans—and even firing warning shots into the air. Nothing worked. And killing the ebony beasts was against the law. According to local officials, the tormentors were endangered. Destroying them would result in a hefty fine. The cold autumn wind tearing at the trees seemed to mock Dr. Hopkins, and he was certain one swooping buzzard grinned with glee!


Indeed, the buzzards seemed a metaphor for the spiritual warfare of the last six years. As the winged menaces invaded the school, year in and year out, David’s wife almost died of cancer. He suffered from the sometimes-fatal Crohn’s disease. The college, in the throes of necessary but difficult change, struggled for financial survival. Dr. Hopkins wondered if and when the buzzards would smell the death of the college and swoop. He shook his fist toward the feathered foes and declared, “You won’t win!”


Yet just when it looked like he was finished, twenty-five prayer warriors arrived on the campus to pray for the college—and for the rapid departure of the carnivorous creatures. The next day, Dr. Hopkins received a call from a donor who said, “I’ll give one hundred sixty thousand dollars toward the construction of a new science building.” Another donor called and said, “We’ll give five hundred thousand dollars toward the new science building!” What’s more, his wife was declared cancer free!


President Hopkins told me that he was so happy about the news that he nearly floated home. That’s when he made a startling discovery. As he looked around, he noticed the trees were void of those dark adversaries. No buzzards! Gone! Gone! Gone! For no apparent reason, they had vanished! At that moment, he recalled Abraham’s sojourn from Ur to the Promised Land. Abraham had paused to worship and to offer a sacrifice to God as a sign of His covenant. (It should be noted: The buzzards came down to steal Abraham’s sacrifice before he could seal it. Abraham had to shoo the winged predators away!)


Someday, you’re going to spot buzzards circling in your spiritual No-Fly Zone. There is going to come a time when you’re hit with a crisis, one that you didn’t see coming. And it may cause your whole world to crumble like an old cookie under a big sledgehammer. But take heart; you don’t have to be a crumb in the midst of the crumbling.


WORLD CRUMBLING IS NOT AN OLYMPIC SPORT


The Old Testament character Job reminds us: “Man is born to trouble as surely as sparks fly upward” (Job 5:7). It’s a fact of life. We didn’t inherit curly hair, brown eyes, and a propensity to arthritis from Adam. We inherited trouble. Adam’s disobedience to God started a chain reaction of suffering and sorrow that won’t be broken until the eastern sky splits and the Savior returns. The Bible says, “In Adam all die” (1 Cor. 15:22).


So our family tree is more like a prickly cactus than a pristine maple. But how does it play out in the landscape of life? What is it that makes our world come tumbling down like a planetary Humpty

Dumpty? There are several factors that can play a part in the world crumbling times.


LIFE CHANGES


We are spiritually and emotionally vulnerable when we face changes in the routine of our lives. Vocational, housing, relationship, physical, or financial changes—all may reduce our stability to zero (to put a new slant on the fog report!). In the Old Testament, Abraham faced unsettling uncertainty when God called him to leave his homeland and take his family to a new country.


He responded obediently, but I’m sure there was a king-sized knot in his stomach when he packed his luggage: “By faith Abraham, when called to go to a place he would later receive his inheritance, obeyed and went, even though he did not know where he was going” (Heb. 11:8). The phrase did not know where he was going is key to what he must have felt. Everything familiar would soon be set aside, and he would leap like a skydiver into the unknown.


The focus on Abraham comes from the patriarchal emphasis in Bible times. But think about how his family must have felt. They would have to leave familiar department stores and playgrounds, forfeit soccer team membership, subscribe to a new cable television service.


Sad farewells.


Financial uncertainty.


Strange roads.


This wasn’t going to be a picnic for Abraham’s family.


Change never is a picnic, but it happens. Sudden layoffs. Diving stocks. Rising gas prices. A doctor with a somber face, holding an alarming medical report in his hands. And when change does happen, our world often crumbles.


Happiness is inward and not outward; and so it does

Not depend on what we have, but on what we are.

—Henry Van Dyke


DELAYED PROMISES


Look again at Abraham’s life story: “By faith he made his home in the promised land like a stranger in a foreign country; he lived in tents, as did Isaac and Jacob, who were heirs with him of the same promise. For he was looking forward to the city with foundations, whose architect and builder is God” (Heb. 11:9–10).


Abraham was looking forward to the city.


So, where’s the city? All he saw was desert. No skyscrapers here, just dusty tent dwellings at the end of a long travel days spent looking at the backside of a camel.


This was supposed to be the Promised Land. But for Abraham, it must have looked like it was mostly land and little promise. For the moment, milk and honey looked more like curds and whey.


Delayed promises are world-crumbling situations. We gather together the hopes and pledges of the Bible like a pile of prescriptions from an immediate-care clinic. We haul out our inheritance claims. We thumb through the Rolodex of advice from near and far. “Just a little while.” “Sunday’s coming.” “Somewhere over the rainbow …”


But we’re used to instant coffee and microwave popcorn. Delayed promises? We’ve been promised a celestial city, but we can’t see it for the storm clouds. The realization sets in and causes our hearts to

break. We’re stuck in the now, like Abraham and his family, trying to eke out an existence in an unfurnished Promised-Land apartment.


PERSONAL PROBLEMS


Abraham also had to look for a promise beyond the horizon of personal setbacks: “By faith Abraham, even though he was past age—and Sarah herself was barren—was enabled to become a father because he considered him faithful who had made the promise. And so from this one man, and he as good as dead, came descendants as numerous as the stars in the sky and as countless as the sand on the seashore” (Heb. 11:11–12).


Wouldn’t it be awful to face life when you’ve already been declared “as good as dead”? Maybe you have!



The buzzards of age and infirmity had been in a holding pattern over Abraham’s life. God had made the promise: Abraham’s descendants would be as numerous as the stars. But Abraham couldn’t see the stars because of the smudges on his trifocals. His family would become as numerous as the sands, but the sands of his own hourglass had settled quicker than an elephant in a lawn chair.


We’ve all been there. Personal difficulties crowd out our hopes of a tomorrow. We can’t do that because of this. “If only I could…” “I just wish I didn’t have to …” “If it weren’t for…” We dialogue with life, wishing we could erase the effects of time. Personal difficulties swarm around us:


Grudges that poison us

Jealousy that gnaws at us

Loneliness that isolates us

Inadequacies that paralyze us

Finances that bind us

Sorrows that plague us.


SUDDEN TRIALS


Abraham’s life would have been so much different if it weren’t for that day. He had been sailing along—working out the issues of a new home, bringing his family to a consensus, driving fresh-cut stakes into the promises of the new land. Then, the Scriptures say, “God tested Abraham” (Gen. 22:1).


A sudden trial arrived like a five-hundred-pound gorilla. God was applying a litmus test to Abraham. He wanted His protégé to see that faith works when we face that day. God told Abraham to take his son to a remote place and prepare an altar of sacrifice—and then sacrifice his son, his only son, back to God. Leaving his servants behind, Abraham took the materials for the altar, along with his only son, and began the longest journey of his life. The trip from Ur was a piece of cake compared to these few steps.


Even as they walked together, the questions began to fly: “Father, where’s the sacrifice?” Abraham’s heart was pounding. He was committed to obeying God’s command: to make his own son that sacrifice. Abraham replied, “God will provide.” But deep in his heart the doubts must have swirled like an oak leaf in a whirlpool.


That day—that sudden testing time in the life of the patriarch that would be unlike any other day. “By faith Abraham, when God tested him, offered Isaac as a sacrifice. He who had received the promises was about to sacrifice his one and only son” (Heb. 11:17). Abraham passed the test. He trusted God beyond what common sense or his own will would have led him to do. Then God instructed Abraham not to lay a hand on his son and provided a ram for Abraham to sacrifice.


Perhaps you’ve had a day like that. Life is pretty uneventful, then suddenly everything changes. A sound f metal crushing metal. A telephone call. A knock on the door. An ambulance siren. We who are children of promise suddenly face a horrendous situation. Something is expected of us. Not one of us is exempt.


I’M HAVING A “WHOLE LIFE” CRISIS


Our reactions to world-crumbling events vary. Sometimes we feel helpless. For the most part, we’re used to being in control of things. But when life is suddenly out of our control, a sense of vulnerability sets in. Until now, we’ve been able to fix most everything else, but we can’t fix this. It’s just out of reach, like that burned-out light bulb in the twenty-foot ceiling chandelier. We can see it, and we know that changing it would make a difference. But without some assistance, we’re powerless. Sometimes we feel abandoned. Alone in the hospital room, waiting for loved ones. Alone at the table that once was also occupied by a spouse or parent. Alone in a courtroom hallway, waiting for the lawyer. Alone. Abandoned. “Why me, Lord?” we inquire. But often, heaven is silent—not because there isn’t any concern up there, but because we make such loud groaning noises down here that we cannot hear the still, small voice of assurance.


Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through Experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, Vision cleared, ambition inspired, and success achieved. —Helen Keller


Sometimes we feel worthless. World-crumbling events have a way of sucking the self-esteem out of our lives. Our pride and dignity are temporarily gone. Our once-secure finances are tenuous. Our once strong

bodies are frail. Our once-happy homes are in shambles. Our once-respectful children have rebelled. We feel about as significant as an eyelash on a mosquito.


Sometimes we feel ashamed. Sometimes we have made a personal contribution to the world-crumbling situation. We’ve been players, not just bystanders. Sometimes we make wrong choices. We cross the line. The pain in our foot comes from a self-inflicted gunshot wound. We stand in our self-made ruins and weep over what should have been, or what might have been, if only we had kept the law of God or if only we had let our conscience give the final answer.


One day, Jesus came across a man who was a poster child for world-crumbling events:


Jesus went up to Jerusalem for a feast of the Jews. Now there is in Jerusalem near the Sheep Gate a pool, which in Aramaic is called Bethesda and which is surrounded by five covered colonnades. Here a great number of disabled people used to lie—the blind, the lame, the paralyzed. One who was there had been an invalid for thirty-eight years.


When Jesus saw him lying there and learned that he had been in this condition for a long time, he asked him, “Do you want to get well?”


“Sir,” the invalid replied, “I have no one to help me into the pool when the water is stirred. While I am trying to get in, someone else goes down ahead of me.”


Then Jesus said to him, “Get up! Pick up your mat and walk.” At once the man was cured; he picked up his mat and walked. (John 5:1–9)


For thirty-eight years of his life, this man had been carried, pulled, or pushed to the pool beside the sheep gate on the northern side of the Jerusalem temple. There the unnamed man, with so many unnamed others, waited to be healed.


The invalids believed that an angel of the Lord occasionally stirred the waters in the pool and the first person to step into the water would be healed.


This poor man had never made it. Though he had helpers to transport him and put him close to the edge of the pool, he had never been first in. This day was no exception. It was “miracle time,” and he was tardy.


Time after time, he was toenail close to a miracle. But still, he went to the pool!


Think of the cruelty. A heavenly messenger makes a house call every now and then but brings only enough healing power to cure just one person: the first one in.


Jesus saw and approached this man. He learned about the man’s plight, and the Lord healed him. And the fact is, when our world crumbles, Jesus never fails to see it, and He is never far away.


God believes in me,

Therefore my situation is never hopeless.

God walks with me,

Therefore I am never alone.

God is on my side,

Therefore I can never lose.

—Anonymous




©2009 Cook Communications Ministries. God Has Never Failed Me, But He Sure Has Scared Me to Death a Few Times by Stan Toler. Used with permission. May not be further reproduced. All rights reserved.

Chapter 1
Pinto Beans and Fried Bologna—
Now That’s a Feast of Faith


We do not know what to do. (2 Chron. 20:12)


Growing up in the hills of West Virginia impacted my life tremendously. My dad was a coal miner, and we lived in a coal-mining community—Baileysville, an unincorporated town. Of course, most towns in West Virginia are still unincorporated. And the population of Baileysville was down to sixty as of 1994, so I guess it will never be incorporated! In fact, it’s so small that Main Street is a cul-de-sac. But it is my hometown!


Californians love to brag about being able to go to the mountains to snow ski and the ocean to sunbathe in the same day. Well, in Baileysville, we had our own definition of the good life. If you lived on the side of the mountain, you could cross the river anytime, any day, on an old-fashioned swinging bridge!


My Saturdays were spent at the Wyoming Company Store. While Mom and Dad made purchases with coal-mining dollars, I took charge of watching my brothers, Terry and Mark. That wasn’t difficult if you knew what to do. We eagerly peered at the black-and-white television sets in the furniture department. Programs such as Fury, Sky King, and My Friend Flicka seemed so real to us!


Our small white frame house was located on the side of Baileysville Mountain. We had a well nearby that provided ample water and a pot-bellied coal stove to keep us warm (as long as you remembered to put the coal in it!).


I have heard that someone can be described as a “redneck” if his bathroom requires a flashlight and shoes. Well, our house had three rooms and a path to the little house out back. But it was our home, and I loved it—no matter how pink it made my neck.


One of the saddest days of my childhood was a Saturday morning when we returned home from a visit to the company store to see our tiny home engulfed in flames. We lost everything. I cried for days.


Years later, Pastor Richard Grindstaff told us that as the house burned to the ground, Dad put his arm around him and said, “The Lord giveth, and the Lord taketh away. Blessed by the name of the Lord!”


Put the Road Kill on the Table, and Call the Kids for Supper!


By the time I was eleven years old, we had moved to Columbus, Ohio, in search of a better life. My dad, only thirty-one years old, had already broken his back three times in the coal mines and was suffering from the dreaded miners’ disease, “black lung.” But we were happy and almost always had pinto beans, cornbread, and fried bologna for supper. (That’s right, only later did we call it dinner!)


Christmas Day 1961 will always be one of the most wonderful, life-changing days in my memory bank. It had been a long, hard winter with lots of snow and cold weather. Times were tough! Dad had been laid off from construction work, our food supply had swindled to nothing, and we had closed off most of the house in order to cut down our high utility bills.


This epiphany really began Christmas Eve when Mom noted that we had no food for Christmas Day and no hope of getting any. That was difficult for me to understand. We were used to mom calling out, “Pinto beans, cornbread, and fried bologna. Come and get it!” But now we didn’t even have that. There was no food in the house!


Mom suggested that it was time for us to accept a handout from the government commodities department, so—reluctantly—Dad loaded Terry, Mark, and me into our old Plymouth, and we headed downtown. When we got there, we stood in line with hundreds of others for what seemed like hours, waiting for government handouts of cheese, dried milk, flour, and dried eggs. Ugh! The wind was cold, and the snow was blowing as we stood there shivering. Finally, Dad could stand it no longer.


“We’re going home, boys. God will provide!” he said. We cried, yet we completely trusted Dad’s faith in God.


That night, we popped popcorn and opened gifts that we had ordered with Top Value trading stamps which Mom had wisely saved for that purpose. Perhaps some of you are too young to remember Top Value stamps. Back then, almost all grocery stores gave out trading stamps for purchases made. You could save the stamps and fill up Top Value Books for redemption. In my day, Top Value provided a catalog that listed the number of books needed for a gift item. So Mom saved stamps all year long, counted the bounty by November 1, and let us Toler boys pick out our Christmas presents.


Terry got a transistor radio. (He hadn’t realized that we had no money to purchase a battery!) I had ordered a miniature Brownie Kodak camera. (That wasn’t smart, since we couldn’t afford film, either!) And baby brother Mark got a small teddy bear. While none of the gifts was a surprise to us, Mom had carefully and lovingly wrapped each one to be opened Christmas Eve. We were grateful to have anything!


Everyone slept well under Grandma Brewster’s handmade quilts that night. While we were fearful of the prospect of the next day without food, we were just happy to be together as a family. (Little did we know that Dad would be in heaven by the following Christmas.)


On Christmas morning, we were all asleep in Mom and Dad’s bedroom when suddenly, we were startled by a loud knock and a hearty “Merry Christmas!” greeting from people who attended the Fifth Avenue Church. There stood Clair Parsons, Dalmus Bullock, and others with gifts, clothes, and a thirty-day supply of food. (Yes, dried pinto beans, cornmeal, and a huge roll of bologna were included!) Since that day, I have always believed that God will provide, and that God is never late when we need a miracle!


We must bring the presence of God into our families. And how do we do that? By praying.

—Mother Teresa


One of my favorite Bible stories is in 2 Chronicles 20:12. King Jehoshaphat of Israel found himself in what appeared to be a hopeless situation. He cried out to God, “Our God … we have no power.… We do not know what to do.” King Jehoshaphat had just discovered three new enemies. Unfortunately, all three were lined up against the tiny nation of Israel, and King Jehoshaphat realized that he was powerless without God’s help. That’s the way we felt in the Toler home. The good news for all of us is the same as it was for King Jehoshaphat. God can and will make up the difference.


Seek the Lord


Alarmed, Jehoshaphat resolved to inquire of the Lord, and he proclaimed a fast for all Judah. The people of Judah came together to seek help from the Lord. (2 Chron. 20:3–4)


Jehoshaphat asked God a significant question: “Are you not the God who is in heaven?” (2 Chron. 20:6). In other words, he was saying, “God, if You can take care of this universe and bring order to it, then You can provide for me.”


He asked God another question: “Did you not drive out the inhabitants of this land?” (2 Chron. 20:7). He was reminding himself of God’s faithfulness in the past. I am beginning to realize that my faith today anchors to the faith that my dad passed on to me with his wisdom: “God will provide.” And provide He did for the Tolers!


After Dad’s death, God sent a wonderful Kentucky stepfather, Jack Hollingsworth, into our lives. He saw to it that each son of William Aaron Toler had plenty of pinto beans, fried bologna (by the way, he is an expert at cooking it!), cornbread, and a college education. All three boys later became Nazarene ministers.


Confess Your Need


We have no power to face this vast army that is attacking us. (2 Chron. 20:12)


If you want God’s help, you must confess your need! The world in which we live is a world of independence. We are taught to look out for “No. 1,” to do our own thing, to think for ourselves, and to trust in our own abilities. King Jehoshaphat reminded the children of Israel that “Me-ism” doesn’t work here! He confessed that they were inadequate against the three enemies they faced: “Power and might are in your hand” (2 Chron. 20:6).


When I need God’s provision, I look up and confess, “God, I am incapable, but You have all the resources for my miracle!”


Focus on God, Not Your Problem


We do not know what to do, but our eyes are upon you. (2 Chron. 20:12)


King Jehoshaphat gave his people a formula for deliverance: “Get your eyes off the problem! Your focus must be on God!”


Living in Oklahoma during tough times as an adult has also strengthened my faith in God. In the mid-1980s, I watched many banks fail; in fact, the FDIC closed so many banks in my hometown of Oklahoma City that I wore a T-shirt that said, “I bank with RDIC!” Agriculture diminished, and oil rigs stopped pumping. But even in the most difficult situations, a simple faith in God and a calm reassurance in the face of insurmountable obstacles resulted in victory.


I will always remember sitting at a table in the Oklahoma City Marriott hotel restaurant on Northwest Expressway and listening to my friend Melvin Hatley, founder of USA Waste Management Company, talk about the collapse of the oil industry and the failure of the old First National Bank downtown. Tears flowed freely, and yet his faith took hold as he discussed God’s history of faithfulness. His calm assurance, founded and grounded in a dynamic faith, made all the difference! Today, Melvin is a testimony of the phrase “Tough times don’t last, but tough people do!”


Trust and action always work hand in hand. For example, you know the story of Wilbur and Orville Wright. On December 17, 1903, they made history. They defied the law of gravity and flew through the air. Many forget that the concept of flying did not originate with the Wright brothers. In fact, several years before the brothers flew their motorized plane at Kitty Hawk, scientists had discovered that flying was possible. While others remained skeptical, the Wright brothers believed the formulas and designed their own plane. When they achieved “first flight,” they demonstrated the importance of trusting the facts and taking action in order to experience results.


The same is true for Christians. We can know a lot about God and the Bible, but until we relax in faith and believe in the promises of God, we will be disappointed.


I love the story that my former professor Dr. Amos Henry used to tell about D. L. Moody. Apparently, Moody was on a ship crossing the Atlantic Ocean one night when it caught on fire, and all on board formed a bucket brigade to pass ocean water to the scene of the fire. One man in the line turned and said, “Mr. Moody, don’t you think we should retire from the line and go down and pray?”


“You can go pray if you want to,” Moody replied, “but I’m going to pray while I pass the buckets.” What great insight! God wants to see if you mean business, so pray while you work.


Just think, if Jesus had thought prayer was the only thing He needed to do and had remained on His knees in the Garden of Gethsemane instead of getting up and following God’s plan for His life, there never would have been a Calvary.


Relax in Faith


One of the great things about faith is that it helps you persevere. There’s a story about two men who were climbing a particularly difficult mountain when one of them suddenly fell down a crevasse five hundred feet deep.


“Are you all right, Bert?” called the man at the top of the crevasse.


“I’m still alive, thank goodness, Fred,” came the reply.


“Here, grab this rope,” said Fred, throwing a rope down to Bert.


“I can’t grab it,” shouted Bert. “My arms are broken.”


“Well, fit it around your legs.”


“I’m afraid I can’t do that either,” said Bert. “My legs are broken.”


“Put the rope in your mouth,” shouted Fred.


So Bert put the rope in his mouth and Fred began to haul him to safety: four hundred ninety feet … four hundred feet … three hundred feet … two hundred feet … one hundred feet … fifty feet … and then Fred called out, “Hey, Bert, how are you doing?”


Bert replied, “I’m fine … Uh oh!”


Don’t let go of the rope, my friend! As Dr. Steve Brown says, “Tie a knot and hang on!”


You will not have to fight this battle. Take up your positions; stand firm and see the deliverance the Lord will give you. (2 Chron. 20:17)


It’s interesting that this particular verse is the middle verse of the entire Old Testament. It is like a pregnant pause for the believer. This concept, “stand firm,” is like going into the batter’s box during a World Series baseball game with a great pitcher on the mound, digging in, and saying, “I don’t care how fast you throw that ball, I’m anchored here, and you can’t move me!” King Jehoshaphat said, “Stand your ground and remain calm—God is going to help us.”


Of course, that’s easier said than done. Harmon Schmelzenbach, a missionary to Africa, often holds audiences spellbound with his story about a huge python that uncoiled itself from the rafters and then wrapped itself around his body while he was kneeling to pray.


The python is known for its ability to kill its victim by squeezing it to death. Schmelzenbach states that Isaiah 30:15 instantly flooded his mind: “In repentance and rest is your salvation, in quietness and trust is your strength, but you would have none of it.” With the huge snake wrapped around his body, he testified that he felt the calm assurance that God was in control. Harmon remained perfectly still and prayed like never before!


If he had moved a muscle, no doubt the giant python would have constricted and killed him. But Schmelzenbach reports that the snake slowly uncoiled itself and went back to the rafters. I don’t know if Schmelzenbach now prays with one eye open or not, but one thing’s for certain: No one can convince him that there isn’t power in the promises of God.


We can depend on God. Did you know that we have more than seven thousand promises in Scripture to stand on? Not only that, but you can stand on the character of God! God has never lost a battle. Why not resign as general manager of the universe, eat a bowl of beans and cornbread, and relax in faith?


Give God Thanks Before Your Miracle


King Jehoshaphat began to appoint those who could sing. “As they began to sing and praise, the Lord set ambushes against the men of Ammon and Moab and Mount Seir who were invading Judah, and they were defeated” (2 Chron. 20:22). Do you get the picture? Three armies of bloodthirsty warriors with overwhelming strength and weaponry lined up against tiny Israel, and the king called the choir to sing! Talk about faith. That day they claimed victory!


God is faithful now in the twentieth century, just as He was in the days of ancient Israel. During the Second World War, the Allies experienced a very difficult time. The British had just suffered a terrible defeat at Dunkirk, losing almost all of their military supplies during the evacuation of their soldiers. France had been conquered, and the United Sates had not yet entered the war. The island nation of England stood alone against the Axis powers.


Prime Minister Winston Churchill knew he had to bolster the courage and the determination of his people. He needed to make a speech—an inspiring speech—that would rally the citizens. On Sunday evening, June 2, 1940, Churchill was in his Cabinet Room at 10 Downing Street. His secretary, Mary Shearburn, was poised at the typewriter. Dictating, Churchill paced from the fireplace to the velvet-draped windows and back again. Slowly his speech emerged onto the typed page. Often he would rip the sheet from the machine only to begin anew. It was late, and the room was cold in the night air. The prime minister’s voice had now grown hoarse and faint. His head bowed, and he sobbed, for he did not know what to say. Silence. A minute passed, maybe two. It seemed like an eternity. Abruptly his head rose and his voice trumpeted; he spoke as a man with authority. The thought descended upon him, as from an angel above: “We shall never surrender!”


Perhaps those words did come from an angel. Who knows? All we know is that God is faithful. Regardless of how scary or how seemingly hopeless our mission may be, He does not forsake us. All we have to do is trust—placing our fears and our failures in His hands. He will not let us down.


Back in 1850, during the California Gold Rush, a young man from Bavaria came to San Francisco, bringing with him some rolls of canvas. He was twenty years old at the time, and he planned to sell the canvas to the gold miners to use for tents. Then the profits from his sales would finance his own digging for gold. However, as he headed toward the Sierra Nevada Mountains, he met one of the gold miners. When he told the miner his plans, the miner said, “It won’t work. It’s a waste of your time. Nobody will buy your canvas for tents. That’s not what we need.”


The young man prayed within. Then he got his answer.


The gold miner went on: “You should have brought pants. That’s what we need—durable pants! Pants don’t wear worth a hoot up there in the diggings. Can’t get a pair strong enough.” Right then, the young man from Bavaria decided to turn the rolls of canvas into pants—blue pants—that would survive the rigors of the gold-mining camps. He had a harness maker reinforce the pockets with copper studs, and the pants sold like hotcakes!


By the way, the name of the young man from Bavaria was Levi Strauss. And he called the new pants “Levi’s”! So far, about 900 million pairs of Levi’s have been sold throughout the world, and they are one of the few items of apparel whose style has remained basically unchanged for more than 130 years.


It is amazing that a style of pants could endure for over a century. How much more incredible is the unwavering faithfulness of God. I’ll never forget the simple hope in His faithfulness that I learned at home. My own father modeled that faith in God before us, trudging home in the snow from the coal mines, face darkened with coal dust, lunch bucket jangling, whistling the old tune “His Eye Is On the Sparrow.”

Why should I feel discouraged?

Why should the shadows come?

Why should my heart be lonely

And long for heaven and home?

When Jesus is my portion?

My constant friend is He.

His eye is on the sparrow,

And I know He watches me!

—Civilla D. Martin


Yes, the God who sits on a throne in heaven is interested in you! If He tends to the lilies of the fields and attends the funeral of a baby sparrow (and He does), He surely will provide for you!

Friday, August 21, 2009

Friday Writing Buzz

MOOD STATUS: "Pleased." Almost done my edits. :)

NEW BEDROOM PAINT COLOR: Mercer Blue.

Well, I'm hoping to finish up my edits today. All in all--with the exception of one scene--the changes were pretty minor and very easy to do.

In-between editing (and commenting on blogs and checking e-mail and painting my bedroom) I found some cool writing links to share.

So here goes:

***Do you have an author brand?
Believe it or not, a brand is NOT the same as a tag line. Check out Theresa Meyers' article about the difference and how to establish your brand.

***Hunting for an agent?
Check out Writer's Digest and Howard G. Zaharoff's article on 5 Quick Tips for Writer/Agent Negotiations


****Do you need some writing encouragement?
Read Therese Walsh's article on "the secret" to writing success and take heart.

*****Do you have a promotion routine?
Check out Camy Tang's article about not only getting into a promo routine but also making yourself happy at the same time.


That's all for now. It's back to the editing cave for me.

Have a great weekend!

Thursday, August 20, 2009

Putting a Little Color in My Life

IN THE NEWS: "A Florida woman was duped into changing diapers and providing care for a man she met through Craigslist who feigned disabilities." Read more HERE.

Well, I went out looking at more paint samples yesterday and I think I have it narrowed down to two for my master bedroom. Mercer blue and Dusty Leaf (sorry, no link, so you'll have to use your imagination, but it's like a sage green) :)

Both my choices seem great for a master bedroom. According to Benjamin Moore Paints,

Blue is non-threatening, and is a symbol of trust and longevity. It is refreshing, soothing, calm, and dependable.
Blue is also known as anti-inflammatory, and can provide relief for insomnia and headaches. It slows metabolism, lowers blood pressure, and decreases heartburn and indigestion.

Green confers a sense of relaxation and comfort. It represents health and prosperity, and refreshes the spirit. Green is the easiest color for the eye to see.

I couldn't believe how indecisive I've been about this. I should have had my bedroom painted like... JUNE! But I kept thinking What is a color I could wake up to every morning and not get sick of? I had no real answer. :)

Right now my walls are beige (actually our entire house is pretty neutral colored), so the hubby and I felt no matter what it was time for some color. Color is good. I like color. Although I confess I am a little intimidated by it.

The last time I wanted color I ended up with an orange bathroom (bleh), so believe me my fear is warranted.

I'm repainting my bathroom by the way to get rid of the orange.
I'm going to re-paint it Cracker Bitz--which is basically a warm beige. LOL! Somebody help me...

Are you afraid of color in your house, too?

Wednesday, August 19, 2009

WIP #12

MOOD STATUS: "Confident". I think I have a good handle on my edits.

Wow. I bet you haven't seen one of these WIP thingies here in a while. And you'd be right! The last one I did was in June. June 17 to be exact. Right around when school let out... Huh.

The "work-in-progress" work I've been doing this week has been edits. I received my editorial letter a few days ago. Not too scary. About a page. (Ok, more than a page) But still. Nothing too hard to correct.

Only...one thing I've noticed about my list of edits is that, um, I seem to be a bit, um ...

Racy.

Yes, I know! Funny, isn't it? Me, the queen of goody-good girls has a long list of things that need to be "toned down".

Me. Racy. Just so you know, we're talking about ME here!!!

Well, I confess, the crit partners and I shared a surprised chuckle over that. Then, we thought it was really nice to know that there is a non Christian publisher out there like Avalon that worries about stories being family-friendly enough. So, yay, Avalon!

I've tackled a quarter of the edits already, and I hope to have at least half the edits done by the end of the week.

What are you working on this week?

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

An Idea Woman


IN THE NEWS: 1,224-pound cupcake sets record as world's largest. Read more HERE.

Just spent a great weekend with the family. So on Sunday after everyone left, I took a load off and read the paper. (A real treat in my house)

Anyhew... low and behold I open up the "Life" section of our paper and eventually come to the "Pets" section and... voila! I start to laugh. No, actually, I really start cracking up.

So I quickly showed my husband the article who then looked at me blankly.

ME: "Isn't this great?" I exclaimed.

HIM: (who only shrugged)

ME: (frustrated with his cluelessness) "Oh, my gosh, don't you see? I don't know how, but I am SO using this for a scene in my next book!"

HIM: He laughed. "Oh, so you steal your ideas?"

ME: "Heck, yes!" LOL!

Hey, when an idea lands in your lap like this, it's just too good to ignore. :)

You think Law and Order just coincidentally come up with plots that mirror headlines in the paper? I've seen plenty of good articles that have made me wish I wrote suspense or mystery, but this is the first time I could actually use something for my genre.

Of course, the way the article is written in the paper, you wouldn't think instant hilarity. (Like me) But, I know with a few tweaks, I could make it really funny. I'm psyched!

Have you ever gotten any idea for your book through the newspaper?

Monday, August 17, 2009

Yes, more prizes!

This week, the Once Upon A Crime blog is giving away another 3 chapter critique!

This one is offered by Golden Heart finalist, Cynthia Justlin.
You know you want it! She’ll critique any genre but erotica.

Just go the blog link, blog about the contest, then comment in the thread with a link to your post and you’ve entered the drawing.

The winner will be announced on their blog next Monday, August 24.

Good luck!

Sunday, August 16, 2009

Mystery and Suspense Lovers!

The blog Once Upon a Crime is celebrating their anniversary!

In sharing their bloggy love of a good romantic mystery and romantic suspense for the last two years, they're having prizes!
So if you read/write or just love romantic suspense, go check it out!

In honor of the big day, they’re giving away two prizes this week (one winner each).

Up for grabs is the Romantic Suspense Book Bundle:

Beneath Bone Lake by Colleen Thompson
Killer Charms by Marianne Stillings
Sudden Death by Allison Brennan
and the $15 B&N gift certificate to TWO different individuals.

Sound good, huh?

Then hop on over and spread the word!

Friday, August 14, 2009

A Post on Post-Its

MOOD STATUS: "Stressed". Still working on blurb.

Ok. I have exactly 6 hours to try and finish my blurb and get it out into the mail with my contract. (Then, my mom will be over and we're heading to the beach)

Had some questions on the new contract, but after talking to a few authors and to my editor, I feel loads better with it. Whew!


Scrambling to see what else I need to do today. Teaching all week has left me with absolutely nothing done around the house and a ton of reminders and post-it notes hanging around. In fact, I still need to sort through them all.

You see, I'm a visual person. Post-it notes--especially the pretty colored ones--help me keep a visual on what I need to get done. Even if I'm just sitting around accomplishing nothing on my lists, I feel organized. Unfortunately my attempt at organization this week has made my desk look as if it was bombed with confetti.

Live and learn.

Anyhew, speaking of post-it notes... check out this cool video someone made with them. That's when you know they're really getting out of control. :)






Do you use a lot of post-it notes, too?

Thursday, August 13, 2009

Grilled Chicken with Mango-Pineapple Salsa

IN THE NEWS: Ill. man faces 6 months in jail for yawning. Read more HERE.

RECENT IPod Download: "Barracuda" by Heart

My brother and his family are coming to dinner on Saturday. Yay!!
I thought I should share this recipe since this chicken and mango meal has been my new summer "people are coming to dinner and I need to really wow them" dish. :)

(Luckily, I don't have a mango allergy like I thought I did, so I'm safe eating this. Whew!)

Grilled Chicken w/ Mango-Pineapple Salsa
Ingredients
Salsa: (I double the salsa ingredients even though it serves four because I eat a lot of it)
2/3 cup diced peeled ripe mango (1 medium)
2/3 cup diced fresh pineapple
2 tablespoons minced red onion
1 tablespoon minced seeded jalapeño pepper
1 1/2 teaspoons chopped fresh cilantro
1 1/2 teaspoons fresh lime juice
1/8 teaspoon salt
1/8 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper


Chicken:
4 (6-ounce) skinless, boneless chicken breast halves
1/4 cup pineapple juice
3 tablespoons chopped fresh cilantro
3 tablespoons low-sodium soy sauce
2 tablespoons honey
1 teaspoon fresh lime juice
Dash of crushed red pepper
Cooking spray


Preparation
1. To prepare salsa, combine first 8 ingredients. Cover; refrigerate 30 minutes.
2. To prepare chicken, place each chicken breast half between 2 sheets of heavy-duty plastic wrap; pound to 1/2-inch thickness using a meat mallet or small heavy skillet. Combine pineapple juice and next 5 ingredients (through red pepper) in a large zip-top plastic bag. Add chicken to bag; seal. Marinate in refrigerator 30 minutes.
3. Prepare grill.
4. Remove chicken from bag, reserving marinade. Place chicken on a grill rack coated with cooking spray; grill 3 minutes on each side or until done.
5. Place reserved marinade in a small saucepan; bring to a boil. Reduce heat, and cook until reduced to 1/4 cup (about 5 minutes). Drizzle over chicken. Serve salsa with chicken.


I serve it with a side of brown rice and grilled green and red bell peppers.

YUM!!!!
PS. My daughter LOVES this dish-- but she practically drowns the rice in soy sauce. :)

Do you have a dish you especially like to make for company?

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

At the Movies: UP

MOOD STATUS: "Tired". My hats off to any and all teachers.


Last week I took my daughter and her friend to see the movie UP.

It was only $5 a person if you go before noon!

PS: I didn't realize it was PG. Not for anything bad, but the beginning is kind of sad/heavy. Fortunately, it sailed right over the four year-old's head.


Regardless, this movie was AWESOME. I cried (YES, TEARS!!), I laughed, and then I got the sniffles at the end again. Finally a movie made for kids that's not all slapstick. Plus, I loved that the two main characters are an old grumpy man (whose wife has passed away) and a chubby little boy (whose parents are divorced).

Up has a beautiful message in it. It's the kind of movie that children and adults can love.

**side note** The four year old I was with was a little bored in the first 15 minutes of the movie, where the director was setting up WHY the old man is the way he is. Not a big deal and not the four year-old's fault. She just wanted immediate action. But... once he and the little boy started their adventure, she was hooked along with the rest of us. :)

Check out the trailer: It's SOOOOOOOOOOOO cute!!!!





What was the last movie you've seen?

Tuesday, August 11, 2009

Back to Reality--and VBS

IN THE NEWS: Cabbie crashes into church with 5 locked inside. Read more HERE.


Well, it's back to the old grind today. No, not writing grind. The teaching VBS grind. Yes, I have one more week. Well, actually three more days (T, W, and Th)


I was so exhausted last week teaching that I didn't have a chance to share anything about it. (Sorry)

So without further ado... here goes:


1) 3rd and 4th graders are TOUGH. At least my group was/is. All 17 of them. Sheesh. It took me three days to find my groove. But I think I'm ready for them today. :)


2) I confess I totally lost it with them one day. Yup. And I never lose it. Well, almost never. I'm usually so calm and easy going.

Funny story about it: (well, kind of a funny story)

The kids were pretty good for the Bible lesson and games and such, but by the end of the morning they were toast. Well, one day I just couldn't believe their behavior. I actually had to get my mommy voice out and start reprimanding them BIG TIME.

Let me tell you, I must have been pretty scary because they looked like puppies with their tails between their legs. LOL!

Anyway, the youth director's wife came over to me afterwards. Naturally I thought she was going to say something about me yelling, so I was a little embarrassed.
Her: (approaching me slowly) Hey, Jennifer. I saw what happened.

Me: (frozen with that deer in the headlights look) Oh. I'm not normally like that.

Her: Really? Because when I saw you completely lose it back there, I thought, You go, girl!

All I could do was laugh at that point.

But you know what? The next day, I had the best experience with them! I really felt they connected with what I was teaching and we had a good time together.

The night before I prayed about it and decided to put it all in God's hands. You know, I'm so glad I did that. He really did take control and it was great. :)


Anyhew...today I'm going to be preparing my lessons for the week and then I'm going to the dentist because my crown (yes, the same crown from 2 weeks ago) fell out again. Grr... Then I need to work on my blurb and an acknowledgment page for Avalon.

That's it for me. So what's on your plate for this week?

Monday, August 10, 2009

A Perfect Mess by Lisa Harper


It is time for a FIRST Wild Card Tour book review! If you wish to join the FIRST blog alliance, just click the button. We are a group of reviewers who tour Christian books. A Wild Card post includes a brief bio of the author and a full chapter from each book toured. The reason it is called a FIRST Wild Card Tour is that you never know if the book will be fiction, non~fiction, for young, or for old...or for somewhere in between! Enjoy your free peek into the book!

You never know when I might play a wild card on you!



Today's Wild Card author is:






and the book:




A Perfect Mess


WaterBrook Press (June 2, 2009)




ABOUT THE AUTHOR:




Lisa Harper is a master storyteller whose lively approach connects the dots between the Bible era and modern life. She is a sought-after Bible teacher and speaker whose upcoming appearances include the national Women of Faith Conferences. A veteran of numerous radio and television programs and the author of several books, she also is a regular columnist for Today’s Christian Woman magazine. Lisa recently completed a master’s of theological studies from Covenant Theological Seminary. She makes her home outside Nashville.

Visit the author's website.





Product Details:

List Price: $13.99
Paperback: 224 pages
Publisher: WaterBrook Press (June 2, 2009)
Language: English
ISBN-10: 1400074797
ISBN-13: 978-1400074792

MY REVIEW:
I think Lisa Harper is awesome.
There. I said it.
But it's true!
I had the privilege of seeing her speak at a Christian Women's Conference in MD a few years ago and have been a huge fan ever since. She has a wonderful humorous way of teaching God's Word and relating it to your life.
She has not missed her mark with her book A Perfect Mess. With this book, she has delved into the book of Psalms and reveals what a loving Father we have on our side even though we're less than perfect. Through God's Word she offers inspiring insights into God's grace and how we can change the chaos in our lives.
This has been by far my favorite non fiction read this year!

AND NOW...THE FIRST CHAPTER:




Walk This Way

What Psalm 1 reveals about avoiding potholes in the path of life


God’s words, creating

and saving words every one,

hit us where we live.

—Eugene H. Peterson

I’m a sucker for fashionable shoes. Unfortunately, cool “kicks” are often synonymous with wincing in agony. Which was the case a few months ago when I became madly infatuated with a pair of black, knee-high, leather boots while shopping in Chicago. When I tried them on and pranced around in a circle to impress my friends Kim and Sharon, they both looked dubious. Kim even asked, “Are you sure they’re comfortable? Because you look like you’re walking funny.”

I replied flippantly, “Yeah, they’re comfortable. And aren’t they the most gorgeous boots you’ve ever seen?” while intentionally taking slower steps so as not to teeter in front of them anymore.

Of course, they weren’t comfortable at all. I should’ve done the smart thing and put those boots back into the box they came from. I should’ve told the solicitous Nordstrom clerk, “No thank you,” and walked out of the store empty-handed. But I’m more of an impulse shopper than an intelligent consumer, especially when it comes to shoes. So I surrendered the Visa and assured myself, They’re just a little stiff because they’re made of such high-quality Italian leather. It won’t take long for them to get broken in, and then they’ll be as comfortable as a pair of slippers.

I foolishly decided to break them in that very night at a business event because they complemented the outfit I was wearing. I was convinced the cuteness factor far outweighed the possibility of discomfort. Besides, I reasoned, a little pinch is nothing compared to how hip these boots will make me look.

Less than an hour later I was hobbling around like a geisha. And by the time the emcee introduced me, I no longer had any sensation in my toes. I limped mincingly to the podium and tried to focus on speaking while fearing my feet were in the initial stages of gangrene. All the while, my friends sat on the front row wearing “I told you so” expressions. Afterward they teased that I should’ve explained the new-shoe shuffle to the audience. They mused that some people might have wondered if I’d been boozing it up beforehand since I couldn’t walk right all night!

Walking right is the theme of Psalm 1. This first song in the Psalter emphasizes how we must follow our heavenly Father’s path instead of being lured off course by what ungodly people proclaim to be fashionable. And this ode to obedience includes a warning as well: attempting to be hip in ways that aren’t cool with God will ultimately lead to hobbling around in pain, separated from the only One who loves you unconditionally.


“JOY” THIEVES

I can’t help but grin over the fact that the book of Psalms begins with the word happy. And I find it especially intriguing that the happiness in Psalm 1 isn’t associated with eating dark chocolate or finding a pair of designer shoes on the clearance rack. Instead this literary smiley face refers to the profound joy and satisfaction that accompany walking closely with God:1


Happy are those who don’t listen to the wicked,

who don’t go where sinners go,

who don’t do what evil people do. Psalm 1:1, NCV

?When was the last time you hobbled around in pain due to your own foolish choices?



One Sunday when I was in junior high school, I was sitting in church beside a cute lothario named Gary. You can imagine how I felt when this suave young man, who was five years older than I and the object of a huge crush on my part, put his arm around my shoulders. We were sitting a few pews in front of Dad, and although Gary’s attention was so titillating I couldn’t pay attention to the sermon, I could sense Dad’s disapproval wafting through the sanctuary. When the service was over, my normally soft spoken father pulled me aside and declared, “I’d better never catch you swapping slobber with that boy.” Then he tersely told me to get in the car.

We drove home in uncomfortable silence, my dad staring straight ahead and me staring out the window thinking, I hope none of my friends heard Dad. I can’t believe he actually said “slobber”! Ugh, I wish he wasn’t such a fuddy duddy. After we had pulled into the driveway and I had started walking toward the house,

Dad finally broke the silence by saying, “Lisa, come over here for a minute.” He motioned for me to join him by the picnic table. I approached with a cautious “Yes sir,” and he said, “I want you to get up on the table.” I thought, Oh man, Dad’s losing it! But he looked so serious that I obediently climbed on top of the picnic table.

Then he held up his arms and said, “Take hold of my hands. Now when I say go, I want you to try to pull me up while I try to pull you off.” Of course, the minute he said go and pulled, I had to jump down because I couldn’t keep my balance. Dad smiled—sort of sadly—and patted the bench beside him. When I sat down, he said, “Honey, you need to realize that it’s almost impossible to raise someone else up to your standards. If you choose to be with people who have lower morals, nine times out of ten they’ll pull you down to their level.”


PSALMS:

THE INSIDE STORY

The Hebrew word for

“happy” in Psalm 1:1 is

’ašr-ey, which can also be

translated “blessed.”2


It wasn’t until a year or two later, after Gary had thoroughly rebelled against his Christian upbringing and gotten a young girl pregnant, that Dad’s backyard object lesson really hit home. I realized he wasn’t being a fuddy-duddy when he warned me about sharing spit with the community Casanova; he was protecting me. Dad knew what my adolescent heart had yet to learn: bad company is as corrosive as battery acid. Lounging around with unrepentant rebels is a sure way to lose your joy.

Which is the bottom line of the beginning of Psalm 1: happiness can’t keep company with wickedness.


ABBA’S ARBORETUM

My first tour of Israel ranks way up there on the “a few of my favorite things” list. The Mount of Beatitudes left me speechless. The Wailing Wall left me in tears. And the Garden Tomb left me giddy with gratitude. But the parched terrain of the Promised Land initially left me puzzled. I guess I’d always imagined Israel as a lush green landscape dotted with fluffy white sheep and bearded guys playing harps under big shade trees (largely due to the influence of flannel-graph lessons in Vacation Bible School). It took a few days after landing at the Tel Aviv airport for me to get used to the wind-swept panorama of thorn bushes, rocks, and scruffy little acacia


THE JOY OF DOING GOOD

In a recent research project on the

source of happiness, psychologists

found that “the more virtue-building

activities people engaged in, the happier

they said they were both on the day in

question and on the following day.” But

they noted with some surprise, “there

was no relationship between pleasure seeking

and happiness.”3


trees. As if I were using an Etch A Sketch, I had to shake the image of a garden from my mind and twist the dials to redraw Israel as a desert.

The reality of Israel’s arid topography is what makes the lush imagery in the next two verses so striking.


They love the LORD’s teachings,

and they think about those teachings day and night.

They are strong, like a tree planted by a river.

The tree produces fruit in season,

and its leaves don’t die.

Everything they do will succeed. Psalm 1:2–3, NCV


It’s unlikely this psalmist had ever seen a big tree unless it had been transplanted, which is a more accurate translation of the word “planted” in verse 3.4 As a matter of fact, quality lumber was such a scarcity in Israel (except for olive trees, which are more valuable for their oil than their timber) that Solomon actually had to arrange for cedar beams to be floated in from Lebanon when they were building the temple in Jerusalem.5 That’s why this arbor metaphor is an unmistakable reference to God’s blessing; only He could make a tree grow strong and tall in the sweltering heat and sandy soil of Israel. Only He could cultivate vegetation so perfectly that its leaves wouldn’t wither in a drought.

What this means for us is that whoever has been transplanted into God’s garden will flourish. And I really dig (pun intended) the psalmist’s use of the term “transplanted” here, because it implies that salvation is by grace, that because we can’t plant ourselves, God plucks us from the dark, sunless place where we’d been decaying and lovingly replants us in a perfect spot where we’re guaranteed to flourish. We will get bigger and more beautiful, to the point of actually bearing fruit, as we absorb the living water our Creator provides. Plus, when our roots are anchored in Him, even figurative droughts like critical in-laws or financial crises or cancer diagnoses won’t destroy us. The “leaves” of those loved by God don’t die.

Our heavenly Father—who also happens to have a supernatural green thumb—promises to nourish and protect His saplings.

Before we go any further, you may be wondering about the assertion that “everything they do will succeed” at the end of verse 3, which at first glance seems about as truthful as the weight listed on my driver’s license until our government chose to omit that data (maybe because most people fudged on the amount). How can the psalmist label broken relationships or rebellious children or infertility or crippling depression a success? How can he sincerely sing, “Everything they do will succeed,” when all of God’s children experience failure of some kind or another? Has he been guzzling cough syrup, or is he just wearing overly optimistic blinders?

Neither. Because this promise of prosperity is preceded by the context “everything they do”—which in this passage is defined by spiritual obedience—“ succeed” in verse 3 is in reference to walking closely with God.6 It’s essentially an Old Testament version of Romans 8:28: “And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.”

It doesn’t mean we’ll get everything we want exactly how and when we want it. And it sure doesn’t mean everything we do will be judged successful by human standards. What it means is that ultimately our sovereign Redeemer will work everything out for our good and His glory because we are His people and He loves us. It means being in a real,


PSALMS:

THE INSIDE STORY

Psalm 1 doesn’t have a formal

title or author’s name, which

puts it among the orphan psalms.


redemptive relationship with the Creator of the universe is the true measure of success.


THE FLEETING EXISTENCE OF EVIL

God-haters, by contrast, aren’t deep rooted or taken care of by a divine gardener; they’re more like tumbleweeds that roll across the ground, only to inevitably disintegrate in barbed wire:


But wicked people are not like that.

They are like chaff that the wind blows away.

Psalm 1:4, NCV


I recently had oral surgery because the root of an upper molar had fractured in half, leaving me with no option but to have the tooth yanked out of my head. My dentist advised me to get an implant as opposed to an old-fashioned partial or bridge. This means that after the gaping wound from the extraction heals, the surgeon will drill a titanium screw into my jawbone, then when it grafts sufficiently, she’ll affix a porcelain crown to the screw and—presto!—I’ll have a shiny new molar that, according to the brochure, will last over two hundred years. (I’m not sure why the longevity of the implant is considered a selling point since the rest of me will presumably be long gone by then.)

Of course none of this six-thousand-dollar procedure is covered by insurance, and the whole process takes about a year, but I was too loopy from laughing gas to stop and think about the consequences. The worst one being that in place of my trusty old tooth, I now have a “flipper” (common dental vernacular for the fake tooth patients wear prior to getting the actual implant). Furthermore, because this flipper clips on instead of being secured with adhesive, I have a gap between it and my gum that causes me to talk with a noticeable lisp. Believe me, this is a real bummer when you gab for a living!

My dentist told me the tooth trauma actually started with a substandard root canal I had in college, which left me with a compromised chomper that probably cracked when I fell headfirst off a ladder onto a concrete floor a few years ago. He also broke the news that I’ll likely need another implant in the near future.

Like the hair color I was born with and the steel-trap memory I had in young adulthood, even my permanent teeth have proved to be temporary.

Verse 4 explains that the wicked won’t last either. Oh, they may have their season in the sun when it seems as if they’re sitting on top of the world. But their days are numbered. It won’t be long before God yanks those who defy Him out of their abscessed existence. Their chance of survival matches that of a snowball in the Sahara!


THEIR TRAGIC TRAIL’S END

All three of my aunts have worked in public education. One has been a middle-school teacher for decades, and the other two have taught in the classroom and also worked in administration. One of them recently told me about having to expel a high-school senior for attempting to sell prescription drugs two weeks before the end of the school year. This kid was all set to start college in the fall when he chose to become a Vicodin vendor.


PSALMS:

THE INSIDE STORY

In Hebrew, the book of

Psalms is titled tehillim, which

(when translated) means

“songs of praise.” And since

each psalm was originally

crafted as a song, that makes

Psalms essentially the first

hymnal of God’s people!7


But my aunt didn’t have the luxury of lenience, despite his status as a soon-to-be graduate. She had no choice but to call the police, because her high school has a zero-tolerance policy with regard to drugs.

When this student should have been laughing with his buddies in the locker room, he was instead being handcuffed and hauled off to jail. When he should have been striding across the stage to receive his diploma and then smiling into the camera lens of his proud papa, he was instead ostracized and alone. When he should’ve been listening to the lectures of university professors as a baby-faced freshman, he was instead repeating lessons from his last semester in high school. Because of very bad choices, this young man was severely punished. He was effectively barred from the life he could have enjoyed.

And so it is with the wicked. Instead of being happy and content in communion with our Creator, unrepentant sinners will ultimately be cut off from the land of the living. They will not pass Go, they will not collect two hundred dollars, and they will not get to graduate to glory with their classmates:


So the wicked will not escape God’s punishment.

Sinners will not worship with God’s people.

Psalm 1:5, NCV


OUR CONSTANT OBSERVER

I recently had a motion-activated camera installed on my back porch by the Williamson County Sheriff ’s Department (chapter 7 tells the Paul Harvey part of this story). Unfortunately I didn’t realize that along with the ability to capture burglars in a digital format, it also recorded me every time I opened or closed the back door. A week later one of the detectives came by to change the battery and started teasing about arresting me on animal-cruelty charges. He explained how he and several other deputies had gotten a big kick out of watching the footage of my leg stepping through a crack in the door, followed by my cat Lazarus sailing through the air like a Frisbee.

I was so embarrassed, because I love animals. But my recently adopted, houseplant-shredding tabby is a feisty little critter. Whenever I gently place Lazarus outside, he races back in before I can close the door and then attempts to shred something else before I nab him again. So I’ve gotten into the habit of tossing him a short distance so I can close the door without squashing any part of his anatomy in the process. (Don’t worry. He always lands unharmed on his feet.) Little did I know that my nightly cat toss was being viewed in living color by local law-enforcement officials.


PSALMS: THE INSIDE STORY

The 150 individual psalms that make up the book of Psalms (also referred to as the Psalter) were written over a time span of almost one thousand years, from Moses’s era (1400 BC) until the southern Jews returned from captivity in Babylon (around 500 BC). That means these poems were penned while God’s people were wandering around in the desert, when they made their bittersweet return to Jerusalem only to find the land of milk and honey had become a mess, and every season in between. It’s an understatement to say the historical landscape of these lyrics is diverse; Psalms is like a comprehensive musical anthology that covers everything from Rachmaninoff to rap!


They were privy to everything; in fact, their vantage point was so intimate, they could even tell the color of my pajamas! The next section of Psalm 1 is all about God’s observation of us. In fact, the English Standard Version of the Bible puts it like this:


For the LORD knows the way of the righteous. Psalm 1:6


God knows His people. He has intimate awareness of all our ways…pet hurling and otherwise. Which makes me wonder: if we could actually see the red light of God’s “camera” being activated by every thought that runs through our heads, every word that crosses our lips, and everything we do in public and private, how would we behave? Wouldn’t you rather have holy inscribed on your divine DVD than heinous?

Finally, just as the sheriff-cam was bad news for the convicted criminal who used to lurk around my house, so is God’s complete knowledge of human character bad news for the wicked at the end of this opening psalm:


But the wicked will be destroyed. Psalm 1:6, NCV


Which means that unbelievers aren’t simply sitting ducks who might get wiped out; their annihilation is assured. God’s people will be the ones hiking along the path of hope and happiness, but the wicked dudes are blithely prancing straight toward obliteration. They’re going to be burned up faster than petty cash at Target!


SECURITY COMES WITH THE SHEPHERD

The guaranteed security of God’s people, in contrast with the definitive destruction of those who don’t follow Him, in Psalm 1 reminds me of this sermon Jesus preached in the New Testament:


When he finally arrives, blazing in beauty and all his angels with him, the Son of Man will take his place on his glorious throne. Then all the nations will be arranged before him and he will sort the people out, much as a shepherd sorts out sheep and goats, putting sheep to his right and goats to his left.

Then the King will say to those on his right, “Enter, you who are blessed by my Father! Take what’s coming to you in this kingdom. It’s been ready for you since the world’s foundation. And here’s why:


I was hungry and you fed me,

I was thirsty and you gave me a drink,

I was homeless and you gave me a room,

I was shivering and you gave me clothes,

I was sick and you stopped to visit,

I was in prison and you came to me.”


Then those “sheep” are going to say, “Master, what are you talking about? When did we ever see you hungry and feed you, thirsty and give you a drink? And when did we ever see you sick or in prison and come to you?” Then the King will say, “I’m telling the solemn truth: Whenever you did one of these things to someone overlooked or ignored, that was me—you did it to me.”

Then he will turn to the “goats,” the ones on his left, and say, “Get out, worthless goats! You’re good for nothing but the fires of hell. And why? Because—


I was hungry and you gave me no meal,

I was thirsty and you gave me no drink,

I was homeless and you gave me no bed,

I was shivering and you gave me no clothes,

Sick and in prison, and you never visited.”


Then those “goats” are going to say, “Master, what are you talking about? When did we ever see you hungry or thirsty or homeless or shivering or sick or in prison and didn’t help?”

He will answer them, “I’m telling the solemn truth: Whenever you failed to do one of these things to someone who was being overlooked or ignored, that was me—you failed to do it to me.”

Then those “goats” will be herded to their eternal doom, but the “sheep” to their eternal reward. Matthew 25:31–46, MSG


While this story portrays the “good” group as being more giving—they volunteer with Prison Fellowship and cook dinner for down-on-their-luck neighbors and share their soda with cotton-mouthed strangers—they’re only emulating their Master. Because they’ve walked closely with Jesus, they’ve begun to mirror some of His mannerisms. It’s not that they’re inherently better than the wicked guys; sheep and goats are both stinky, hairy manure machines. (Believe it or not, I actually have a bit of firsthand experience on this issue.) Furthermore, my veterinarian friends tell me that goats are actually smarter than sheep. That means sheep don’t have more intrinsic value than goats. The real reason they’re elevated in this gospel imagery is their relationship with the Shepherd. He’s the reason sheep get to be on the right side. He’s the reason they’re spared.

Just like the smelly farm animals in Matthew 25, Psalm 1 reminds us that our salvation is tied to our Shepherd. Without Him, we would surely follow a delinquent gang of goats down the path of destruction. But God’s perfect grace blazes a trail of hope and happiness for messy people like us. When we follow our Father’s directions, we’ll be able to “walk right,” even when teetering on a pair of ill-fitting, too-cool-for-school boots!


The right-now relevance of Psalm 1

God’s love frees us to steer clear of the path of destruction and keep step

with Him in joyful obedience.



ENOUGH ABOUT ME. WHAT ABOUT YOU?

1. It’s been said that the primary purpose of biblical poetry (like that of Psalms) is not so much to teach us as to reach us. What kind of poetry or song lyrics do you emotionally resonate with the most?



2. Reread Psalm 1:1. List the top five people you’re most likely to listen to when you need advice. Do you typically walk away happy after listening to their counsel? Why or why not?



3. Describe a situation in which you were metaphorically “pulled off the picnic table” as a result of hanging around with ungodly rebels.



4. Read Jeremiah 17:7–8 and Matthew 5:3–12. How are the common themes in these passages connected to the overall theme of Psalm 1?



5. Compare Psalm 1:4 with Luke 3:15–17. Why do you think God “winnows” wicked people from His followers? Have you ever felt the need to separate yourself from some people because of their cruddy attitude about our Creator-Redeemer? How did you make the break?



6. What movie or book can you think of that reflects the theme of Psalm 1? Explain the parallels you see.